Are you lost from time to time? Do you look for meaning of an activity? Do you miss why something is going on? In your private life, your job, anywhere?
It is OK. You don’t need to be always IN, to know what is happenning. Anyway, it is important not to accept it as it is and ask. Ask others why you should do or behave like that. Ask yourself, if it is acceptable for you.
No, don’t do it if it is beyond your border.